Sex Conversation: UPDATED

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Shane Sparks: Arrested and Charged with Child Molestation

What a Sha[n]e!

We all know Shane Sparks from, 'So You Think You Can Dance' and as a Judge on 'Americas Next Best Dance Crew'! Well the brotha made more news, when he was finally arrested on old child molestation allegations on Dec. 18th. They started way back in 1994 with a student at his dance studio,  supposedly. There has been only one alleged victim.

Shane is being accused of saying things as well as, "with the intent of arousing, appealing to, and gratifying the lust, passions, and sexual desires of the defendant, who was at least 10 years older than [the victim]."- TMZ

Sparks' Lawyers say that the accuser waiting 15 years after the incident, until Shane became famous to accuse him. Also stated that the whole thing, "Stinks to high heaven."

Thanks to our friends over @ TMZ... here's his mugshot!------->

 To see video of Sparks getting arrested click here

Tila Tequila's Ultimate Christmas Present!!

Tila Tequila recently posted on her twitter page, that she is going to give her brother a very special christmas present. And you wont believe what it is....Well read this.. This is her tweet that she posted on Dec. 20th 2009

officialTila BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: I am going to become a SURROGATE MOTHER for my brother & his Wife!!! That is my xmas present to them. Im pregnant!!!!

Wooooooow.. I honestly dont know whether I believe it.. but it came from her own twitter account.. I know the girl is crazii! But.... I dunno what do u think?

Dwight Sues Ex AGAIN!

So I know I told you about how he is suing his BABII MOMMA for things that she posted on the internet a sometime back.. attacking his character!

Well Dwight is suing Royce again! Apparently Royce posted a picture of their son on twitter.. and earlier in 2008 Royce had a court agreement which ordered her not to post any of the picture of his son on the net, because he stats that it posts a security threat.

Just like before when he sued for each comment, Dwight is suing $500 per follower that she has.. which is 285 including attorny fees. which is a total of $142,500 ontop of the $9,205,000 he sued for previously!

Wow Dwight Really!?

Royce recently stated that, "But the bottom line is Dwight is a douchebag." 

and to me it seems like he really is one..

Tila Tequila: Lesbian & Engaged (Does a Brittney slip-up)

Now we all know that Reality Star, Singer, (or whatever-the-hell she wants to be called) is crazy, loco, insane, whatever you choose to call her.. I personally thinks that the girl needs help, an psychiatric examination...THOROUGHLY! and A.S.A.P

So.. I know probably everyone heard of the crazii episode that happened a couple weeks ago, of Tila Ustreaming live, butt-ass-naked and not only was she naked but her tampon string was hanging out! Don't believe me well here's the proof!

Like WTF! where do they do that @ -------------------->

So we all know the chick is DITZ.. Then later on she came hard on Rhianna on her blog: tila's hotspot! She was saying that home girl had herpes and all that.. and rihanna came back and stated that the sore on her lip is NOT ACTUALLY herpes but it's a scar!!------->duh... i guess

While surfing the net.. I came up on a website that showed this... Tila kissing a women..Casey Johnson... HER FIANCE... wow, so I guess the men didnt cut it out for her... So I guess CONGRATS... just wondering where they are going to get married at, and when, and if they are really engaged or if this is just apart of all her publicity stunt... Both these broads must be crazii...!

Check THIS photos out!

(she let her cookooo show! OH SNAPS.. NOT A GOOD LOOK BOO!)

Diddy on Wax

No, not on record, but on real WAX...

He is the latest celeb to be duplicated in WAX at Madame Tussaud's theatre of wax.. 

He is among other celebrities such as; Beyonce, Miley Syris, Brittney Spears, Will Smith, the Jonas Bros, Barack and Michelle Obama

QUE KICKED OUT OF DAY26!?

Well for all those who couldnt figure out what happened to our boy Que from Day26... Here it is

So everyone seen the last making the band... and how Que had his "BITCHASSNESS" moments...and frequently might I had. He would be constantly ignoring everyone, doing things intentionally to piss the other members off, getting into altercations as though the brother was ready to throw down, and he also missed shows, all because (as the show made it seem) that no one respected his musical choices when it came to picking a song or him singing and blah blah blah blah...

Well Willie talks about the incident, and is open about it.

The video is below but for all those who cannot access the video I transcribed some things out for y'all.

"It's all good, cause the truth is the truth."

"Y'all seen making the band four.. the last series.... dat was true.. there was no script to it.. that's how he was acting.. and he just carried it on.. what people dont know is we almost lost our deal ... because of this dude... I never missed a show.. but you had shows where Que wouldn't even show up.. he changed his number, changed his twitter...we didnt have contact with this dude.. it had discouraged me to the point I was almost about to step out and go solo...he could have broke the entire brand up.."

"we was missing one member, who wasnt even trying to communicate with us.. at the end of the day... any of this could have been resolved..just having a conversation...I dont even know.. anybody in the world probably got his number.. I dont have it tho..I don't know his number.. i dont have his twitter.. I dont know nothing about the dude.yea we was trying to reach out..... we had our lawyers contact his lawyers..and it seemed like... a whatever type situation... but before it took us to pieces we just had to be like..aright.. coo.. well just get rid of this part, keep it moving.."

On Diddy

"..diddy the dude man...he pretty much knew where we was @...he even put a call in to him.. to see if we could make it work...."

So WOOOOW (using the Flavor Flav voice).. dude is bananas.. Changing his twitter account, phone numbers, and what not... I guess we all see how it is now QUE! It's probably because Diddy wasnt paying them $H!T and he just got tired of being broke.. lol.. Well anyway last night Que broadcasting live on Ustream, he supposedly talked about the situation at hand.. but of course I came late and missed it. But Que was at the studio and he played his new single called (and don't quote me on this..) Shake that Ass .. i believe.. but whatever it was it was HOTT!

So despite the breakup.. I think that Que will do JUST FINE!

Dwight Howards Suing Baby Momma!?

So...apparently Dwight Howard is suing his baby momma!

YESS Y'ALL! 

N on top of that.... He's trying to get custody of their son! All because the baby momma was displaying how she felt about the brother!  Here's some of things she says:

"He hasn't shown up for his scheduled visitation in...three months but loves his son? … "Royce is gorgeous, and a class act. The new girl is trash" … “So apparently he hits ladies...what else? … “He has another baby in Atlanta. Pays for ladys [sic] home, and keeps it in his cousins name." -from friends @ BET

Royce (the baby momma) who is a former Orlando Magic and Miami Heat dancer/cheerleader... whatever they are called [no disrespect]. And girlfriend aint ugly either.

Supposedly the only reason he decided to sue is because the comments that she made will effect his basketball career and his endorsements. And earlier its said that she signed and injuction to not say anything about Dwight in/to the public. So he's suing for a total of 9.2 million dollas, which constitutes for approx. $500 per comment she posting at Dwights expense!

To me it seems like she was keeping it real! But girl when u sign an agreement you have to abide by that agreement. I can understand if she hadnt signed anything and was just speaking her mind. ... BUT DEEZ girl... you should have just signed them checks as you were typing...

However, I still think its a shame... if the comments are true... he should definitely be taking care of his son, it's not like he doesnt have the money to do so.. But I dont think that it had to come down to a million dollar lawsuit. She's just giving the child support right back to him.

Chris Brown Mad....

What you mad for BREEZY!?

We'll apparently Chris. B is upset that stores are purposely doing things to stop the success of his album.

I was on twitter last night and everyone was writing to him, telling him their personal incidences of where the store had put them way in the back, or the store stated that they were sold out and they really weren't.

Chris B. Highly upset.

Now see I dont know what the problem is.. His record sales are doing just fine... and they are EXTREMELY BETTER THAN RIHANNA'S FLOP!

Breezy stated on Twitter that he is tired of this shit and that they can kiss his ass.. and also that he is not going to take back anything that he said. Oh yea, he also states what do i gotta do? <--- I guess that has something to do with the whole Rihanna/Chris brown-I-know-i-beat-her-ass-but-i'm-sorry situation..

How Do I Feel?

I can understand where he is coming from.

Now dont get me wrong -- I think that what he did to Rihanna is BEYOND horrible. I feel that nomatter what a man shouldnt lay his hands on a women.. Go cheat or something... call her fat. Say that her breath stinks.. been stinking like she chows 24-7 on Diarrhea! Something like that just dont hit/beat the girl!!

It has affected the way that I see him, but so what! I dont know the brotha personally so I could care less. He says that he is going to pray about it. Then thats what he should be doing. But i still think that he is phenomenal when it comes to the music. I feel like there are so many fans who love him and hate rihanna, he shouldnt have any problems selling a record.

And with all these "publicity stunts", their not going to nothing but make his albums sells go higher..

At the end of the day CHRIS "BREEZY" BROWN yo shit is going to sell regarldess 'member that!

Keyshia Cole Preggers!

So like Ya'll know ... Ya girl HunniiAmour is a MAJOR reality buff.. and ya'll also know that I LOoooVE.ME.SOME KEYSHIA COLE! I mean I can go back to when she came out with her first video ft. Kanye West. She had the Red and Yellow weave jumpin off. STRAIGHT FROM THE HOOD! lol. and I would ask everyone if they seen that new Keyshia joint. And nobody knew. But I did Keyshia girl! I had yo back.

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I damn near almost died when she came out with a reality show. and I DAMN-NEAR fainted when she didnt continue wit, 'The Way It Is." I loved her and her family. I love Neffe and Frankie but damn KEYSHIA I was really watching for yooooooou boooo! lol.

So I guess the reason why she has not appeared on her sister/mothers show is because she is PREGGERS! Yaaay! Appearantly she got her a boo too! His name is Daniel “Boobie” Gibson.. and he got his own DOE! So hopefully this will give her reason to do another show, this time bringing her baby and new man into the SIT.chi.ATION! Maybe they'll get married and we can see all that..

[Okay I know I know] Im getting a little a head of myself, but hey I can't help it. She looks really happy with him, so I know he's making her happy. and WE ALL KNOW that she didnt have the best mother figure from her OWN mother in her life. So now she gets a chance to give her baby all of that and blah blah blah... I could go on forever.

......................................................................>Now when I tried to search the net for pictures of her pregger bum  (cause reports say that she is about 6-7 pregger) and i try to click on them, they have been taken off. But here are the pictures that I got! Bear with me world, Hopefully I can find summore.

[*WINTER IS OFF.ICIALLY HERE*]

Are you wondering what to wear now that Winter has OFFICIALLY arrived! If you live in a snow state such as minnesota like me, then I know you are.

I figure that the best color is black. Atleast that's what I like, but of course you dont have to limit yourself to it. The examples below are of black, but you can go to the website and choose other colors.

Here are some cute jackets of  A L L  price points that may catch her interest!

You can click the link on the side of the jacket to go to the site. 

Forever 21 for $39.80

J.Crew for $149.99

 Old Navy $60.00

Victoria Secret $149.99

 Dereon $89.99

 Babyphat $129.00

 

MY GIRLS: Wendy Williams vs. The Monique Show

I dont know.. This blog is sum.what [RANDOM]

Every night and sometimes (depending on when I wake up) in the morning, I watch my girl, The Wendy Williams show which is followed by my other girl Monique.

I first have to state that I am soo excited to see that we are getting more black talk shows that we as African American Women can relate to. Secondly, when I say my girls, I dont mean any disrespect, yes they are WOMEN, 'my girls' is just a slang term.

Okay now, that I got that out of the way... Back to what I was saying..

Wendy now a talk show host, use to be a radio personality in New York [Hot97]. I remember when celebrities would say that they were prepping for HER show because she was known to ask the most outrageous questions. I remember wendy asking Brooke Hogan if she was still a virgin. LMFAO.. Totally caught Brooke of guard. However that's absolutely the stuff that us listeners and viewers want to hear.

Wendy is no longer on the Radio.  But her talk show, The Wendy Williams show is hott! For me I watch is it on B.E.T every night. I try not to miss it, but if I do, believe me I am Highly UPSET!

I love her HOW U DOINGZ!? and the fact that she wears her wigs with confident and absolutely no shame. Like I stated earlier, she askes the questions that everyone wants to know. She also has ask Weny. And for anyone who has not seen her show (Shame on you), Wendy answers questions that the audience wants to receive advice on, I mean ANY QUESTION. What absolutely cracks me up about Wendy is when she pulls things from underneath her wig! I mean I have never seen her pull out anything but pieces of paper, but whatever--- I love this, for wendy is real with her answers!!

The Monique Show

Now my girl Monique is doing her THANG! Every one was shocked when we seen Monique for the first time, and to see that sister loose all that weight, and not be stick then...it was amazing. Although I am not going to lie, I TOOK ME A MINUTE (and when I say minute, I mean a couple of nights) to get use to ALL THE SCREAMING that Monique does on her show!

I got passed it though, because I can tell that Monique is just happy......... that's all. Shoot, I would be screeming if I got my own talk show too (thank you very much)! But the thing that I love about Monique. Is that she shows LOVE (not saying that Wendy doesn't). When I say Love, I mean every since of the word. She makes sure that which ever celeberty that sits on her couch is there for a reason, and not just to get ratings. She makes sure that tells them exactly what it is that she appreciates about them. And lets them share the possitive things that they are doing in their life, for their community, or just in general.

Of course because Monique is the comedian that she is, I always find myself laughing at something that Monique says. And the best part is that it is not rehearsed. It's kind of like the viewer is there with her at a live show. The jokes are off the brain. And I for one can definitely respect Monique for that.

At the end of the show, she always has a meaningful message that ties into the topic of the show, and she then tells the views and audience to hug themselves, and that she loves them for free! What a great thing. Nothings better than geniunely showing love, and showing that you care.

But as far as competition, THEY DONT COMPETE.. to me they are equal. They are two beautiful women who are holding it down for the African American women everywhere. I will continue to watch both of their shows, and continue to write possitive things about them... (or until one of them makes me mad)...lol Just kidding.

So be sure to catch them.. weeknights on B.E.T

Cassie [a singer]

Soo... Everyone knows the Model turned singer turned Diddys Jumpoff! Well I thought after her last FLOP that she would be done singing! Nope... April fooled ya girl HunniiAmour.

So the new track that has come out is called.. "What she dont know wont hurt her". Go figure right!
With all the press going around that Cassie and Diddy are in a SECRET relationship, and blah blah blah... Well i guess Cassie is cosigning for all of us and I guess she doesnt care.

In one part of the song she says that her name is listed as another name just so the he doesnt get caught!

How bold is that!? I mean DAYUUUUM.. Why are you so content wit being the side chick!?
I guess when it comes to Diddy, I would be content to! LMFAO.. na just kidding. Well heres the new track below. Enjoy

Danger in Danger & Prego by Rapper Fabolous!?

before the manic episode

Well HunniiAmour has some very unfortunate news.

I like most people is a very intense reality buff. I watch all the reality tv shows like, Real Housewives of Atlanta/Orange County, Launch My Line, Project Runway, Wife Swap and the list goes on.

I always seem to like the person that everyone seems to HATE/Despise.. Call it the DEVILS ADVOCATE in me.. but hey. The one person that a lot of people hated on the first season of 'For the Love of Ray J', was a girl that was given the name of DANGER. She was named this due to her careless attitude, her risky behavior, and the fact that she had a lion/tiger or whatever-A BIG HUGE MUTHAFUCKIN CAT tatted on the right side of her face...

Unfortunately danger did not win and was sent home. Shortly after the show ended airing, rumor turned into fact that danger was prego. The rumor part that it was Rays, but she was infact prego. Shortly after she gave birth, we all seen pictures of her on Halloween looking as if she was doing fine.

Well...

Reports state that earlier this month, after getting to a confrontation/argument with her BABY-DADDY she cut off ALL her hair, and was then admitted into the local hospitals psychiatric ward due to postpartum depression.

Unknown on what happened to the baby... I can bet that the baby is fine/alright and is in good hands... But I think WHAT IN THE WORLD HAPPENED!? As a new-mother myself.. I know the effects that postpartum depression could have. Anything and in this case, ANYONE can trigger it. After giving birth to a baby, women, our emotions are all over the place, and this is a critical time for us.

This incident alone doesnt mean that HOMEGIRL is crazy.. (she could be crazy but this episode doesnt mean that because of this she is)..but I wish DANGER the best and pray that she get the appropriate help and that she overcomes this so that we can see more of her..

Danger without her gorgeous long hair




IMPORTANT INFO!!

p l e a s e r e a d !!!

It wasnt even a week ago, that someone(who i call in this blog as NUMBNUT)hacked Monica "danger"'s twitter account. They successfully hacked it, and as proof put on twiter Dangers email address with both her twitter password and email password. The NUMBNUT after giving out this information, changed the password so that danger could not change her password back, and then deleted the tweets that said she hacked it. After that the NUMBNUT then started to tweet outrageously, saying things about her wanting the rapper FABOLOUS (@myfabolouslife ) to "Lay the pipe" and stating that she was prego again and blah blah. Well because the NUMBNUT deleted the part about her/him hacking dangers account people began to believe that it was really danger/monica writing these things. 

Shortly after this was written, it was everywhere MTO supposedly posted that she was prego by rapper FABOLOUS (@myfabolouslife) ! I however dont know that it's true, but I would assume that it was just the NUMBNUT making things up.. 

  

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Kim zolciak on the Wendy williams show TONIGHT

I think everyone knows of the infamous diva Kim Zolciak. The reality star of Bravos' hit The Real Housewives of Atlanta. It seemed as though she always trying to find a way into the industry and finally got her break. Some say that she's tone death and others say that she is good enough to record a hit record. Kim says, she just wants to keep recording one hit wonders. We'll you be the judge. Tonight she will be singing live on the Wendy Williams show that airs on B.E.T

TAKE A LOOK AT THE VIDEO BELOW....SINGING.. OR HIDING BEHIND VOCALS?

Finally Dating?

So... After being treated in a horrible way. You realize what it takes to make you happy. You begin to understand what it takes to make you happy. I learned that I will never take disrespect from the man that I am with. I deserve to be happy. To receive all that I put into the relationship and more. I will be treated like a women. complimented. Loved. I learned that LOVE DOESN'T WANT LOVE HURT.--- which is so real. The man that you are with should not deliberately hurt you. For if he loved you, the thought of him hurting you, would hurt him...

so with that being said..

I finally went on my first date! I had a nice time.

I was nervous on whether it was too soon to be dating. I mean. My son will be three months in less than two weeks. Even though I havent been with the father of my child for about a year. I was still nervous on if im moving too fast.

I definitely dont want to introduce my son to men this early. So Im not doing the MEET-MY-SON part, yet. At the same time, because I never thought that I would become a mom i find it weird when I tell people, "Yes, I have a son.." Or.. "Yes I'm a mother."

But I went on my first date last night, and it ROCKED.

I was soooo happy. I was comfortable in my own skin. I have to thank my aweful relationship for that. I think because I went through soo much of negativity, disrespect, neglect, dishonesty and etc, I now know what I want. As well as I now know who I am which makes me so much more confident in myself.... WOW

So with that being said... It takes a bad relationship to know a good one! Know, respect and love yourself, and then everything else will fall into place!

..PEACE...

long Time... No See

So I definitely have to apologize for not doing this BLOGGING thing to the fullest. I never knew that being a single mother would be this difficult. However, I do have help from my grandmother whom watches my son while im at school. So I guess I mustn’t say that I am completely alone.. But it is still hard!

How was everyones’ TURKEY DAY! Mine was awesome! The whole family gathered at my grandmas crib! I slaved in the kitchen for ever! Yes, this was my first THANKSGIVING in which I did the MAJORITY of the cooking, and let me tell ya…. NEVER AGAIN! HELL-2-THE-NAW! Haha. It was horrible I was hot, none the less sweating, and my back and feet hurt. But I must say that the food was tasty! Ill just put it like this, there wasn’t hardly any left overs.

All the family members stopped by with the BAY-BAY kids, we laughed and ate of course. We took shots of Goose! Watched football. Took Naps. Basically chilled, it was a cool day. Boy, if everyday was TURKEY DAY that would be the best.

Secretly Desolate

Today was a crazy day for me. Emotional rollercoaster to say the least. I had a two hour class and all I thought about how bad I feel as a single mother...

Where does the guilt come from...

easy. ..out of all my relationships, the last one seemed to b the worst. I mean I was not a victim of violence. .he wasn't a thug or gang member. .as far as I know he didn't have a criminal record. I mean at first the relationship was good. I thought that he was a pretty nice guy.

But shortly after I found out I was pregnant that's when the cheating occurred. I would find text messages, facebook messages, and  witnessed phone call conversations. When confronted, then subsequently I became the one who's tripping, or the one invading privacy!! Can you believe that!

Well to make a long story short... I broke the relationship off. I would not be made a fool. I would even say, you don't have to be with me just because I'm pregnant...and his response was, we can work it out!

So I tried several times,  despite the fact that my family disliked him, because of the way he treated me. And the same results.  Some could call me insane for that: doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

So we're no longer together. I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy on Sept. 13th. He has only seen his son maybe 4 times in two months.. Not because he cant but because he chooses not to. Despite his lack of effort I constantly receive text messages saying the following:

I see I was right when I said that you keep trying to keep my son away from me

...Like WTF! I would have never imagined to have so much drama. Women this is so important what I'm about to type next....PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH WHOM U HAVE S.E.X WITH....

I honestly was the person who wanted to wait until marriage to have kids. All my boyfriends were very respectable young men, who LOVED women (not saying they were cheaters but that they truly respected women, and knew how to treat all the women in their life). So where did this one come from and how did it so happen that he became the father of my child.... I HAVE NO FUCKIN IDEA!

I look back and things happened so fast, I don't know if I was in denial or not, but I would have never imagined to be in this position.

So now as a single mother, I fight everyday to become the best I can be for my son. But what happens when my son grows up and realizes that the father figure is absent? What happens when/if he begins to blame himself for his father not being there? How as a single mother do you raise a boy to be a man, when as a women its impossible to do so entirely?

All these things weighed deep on my heart and today it hit me hard!

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                          Brief Summary.
Hello world outside my own. I am a 22 year old African American single mother of 1. I currently attend College, awaiting my Associates in Criminal Justice. I plan to further my education at a four year college, starting fall of 2010.

Now to the NITTY-GRITTY

Why blog!?
Why keep a diary!? Both share the same motive. The only difference is that a blog is meant for the world to see and a diary is not.

I blog because I have come to the realization that my life is complicated. Am I the only one? I am ABSOLUTELY NOT the only one going through the things that I go through. Knowing this, it makes me want to BLOG even more. Hoping that ones who read this can identify and relate to my situation.

 However I'm not looking for handouts. This blog does not represent or speak for anyone but myself.. so please don't read this and think that I am a representation for all single black women, because I only represent or symbolize I, Me, Myself and no one else.

My intentions for blogging are to write down daily happenings and my reactions, replies, and feelings to them. I am not a man basher by any means. The things that I will say in my blog are honest and raw feelings. So if you find my blogs offensive or sexist....YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOUR OWN OPINION...and I respect you for that. Don't write me about how much you dislike my opinions just to read.. I wont be offended.

So with saying that... I will BLOG ON..